Get To Know Who You Are In Love With

I want to talk to you about GETTING TO KNOW WHO YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH.

Do you know a lot about the one you love?Do you know there pass? This is important, cause they can be or they can have things in there pass that can turn you off. If you don't ask you will not know. If you do not know it may come back and bite you in the butt later for not asking. So save them and yourself the headache and ask now.
For an example:
Have you ever been to prison? How long? What for?If they have been and was in there for a couple years or longer. 9 times out of 10 messed up in the head. Probably on the down low, check for any disease.
Was they in for rape, something to do with children, or any killing, or robbery?
Ask yourself would I feel comfortable laying next to someone who have done these things? Do you have a lot of male friends? And if they are the opposite sex, female friends?

Now if you personally don't have a problem with you lover having a lot of friends. Male or female Then cool your self confidence is not low. nor your self-esteem. So they do not have to lie nor hide things from you. But if you do not want there friends around them. Its best you leave them alone unless they are willing to change for you.
If you have low self confidence and low self-esteem. These are the people that date prisoners and don't want you to have any friends. They want you all to there self.

What are some of the things you like to do? What are your hobbies? Make sure you have things in common more then one or two things in common. And make sure you do them together. I find that some people will say, we have things in common but when you two are in deep with the relationship you find that you don't...